Fundamental keys for your first experience with tantric sex

Haven't you been lucky enough to enjoy a good tantric sex experience? Don't worry, it's always a good time to enjoy it. With the collaboration of our masseuses we are going to show you the keys that will make your first experience a 10.

What is tantric sex?

It is a technique that is several millennia old and whose objective is to achieve spiritual transcendence. To achieve this, always use meditation and sexual energy as a tool. When you opt for tantric sex, you must leave aside quick satisfaction and orgasm as the ultimate goal. In this case, you should look for a slow relationship to enjoy the moment and let things emerge. There should be nothing that gets in the way of the couple's relationship so they can enjoy and let themselves go. When it is achieved, not only is a connection achieved on a physical level, that connection is also spiritual and mental. Without a doubt, the energy that flows is really powerful and means that the benefiting parties can enjoy many benefits.

1- Bet on breathing

One of the keys for tantric sex to give a good result is to enjoy adequate breathing. On many occasions, breathing is not adequate and that prevents us from truly enjoying the things around us. Through tantra you will learn that breathing must be deep and rhythmic. When you control your breathing it is easier to get energy to flow. Of course, coordination of the couple's breathing will always pay off.

2- Without rush and control

The success of tantric sex is always linked to control and enjoying without rushing. As we always say, the room where the event is going to take place should not have things that could distract. For example, cell phones, watches, alarms should be left out... You have to enjoy yourself and the body will tell us how long the session should last. Slowness is a point to take into account, as is pacing control. Maintaining control over the rhythm directly helps to increase pleasure. When you can control pleasure, it is much easier to obtain a connection with your partner and consequently enjoy sensations that have never been experienced before. We recommend tantric sex because you will realize that the orgasm is not the only thing that can be enjoyed.

3- Emotional connection

To enjoy new experiences it is important to achieve a good emotional connection with your partner. Even couples who may not seem to have that connection at first will get it if they really put their mind to it. To achieve that deep union it is always a good idea to take your look into account. A sexual, penetrating and lasting look always helps to make rapport superior. A simple look can already make us feel things that can later go further. We can say that the power of the gaze is a very powerful weapon. But it is not the only weapon that can be used. The important thing is to take time so that that emotional connection can be possible. Of course, neither part should be closed in band, if it does then that connection will be impossible.

4- Caresses are very important

The art of caressing and massage in tantric sex is essential to awaken and move sexual energy. Through gentle caresses and conscious massages, the aim is not only to relax the body, but also to stimulate the senses and increase the connection between the couple. Lingam massage, for men, and Yoni massage, for women, are specific practices focused on the genitals, the goal of which is not immediate orgasm, but a deeper connection with sexual energy. Using natural oils and slow movements in a full body massage helps open energy channels, preparing the body for a more intense and spiritual sexual experience. These techniques allow both partners to connect on a deeper physical and emotional level, prolonging pleasure and creating a conscious and transformative sexual experience.

5- Control of sexual energy

Through tantra it is easier to learn to control the sexual energy that the human body has. On many occasions it goes unnoticed, but if you train through tantra you can take advantage of it. On many occasions the complicated thing is not to awaken that energy, but to control it so that it offers us the benefits we are looking for. Among other things, you have to learn to control your orgasm so that it doesn't go away quickly. Control is not only a thing for men, but also for women, although it is true that it is usually easier for them to control it. To obtain greater control, the mobilization of sexual energy is presented as a truly practical exercise. Visualization and control of breathing are necessary to be able to perform this exercise well.

6- The importance of the present

If tantra teaches us anything, it is that the present is more important than we think. The important thing is what we are experiencing at this moment, hence we have to focus the experience on the now and forget about the past and what may happen. Many tactics can be used to stay in the present, although meditation is always presented as a great option for success. When we manage to forget about everything and focus on the present, it is much easier to enjoy every caress, look... Everything has much more value, that is, obtaining more pleasure is really simple.